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Coping with family expectations

Margaret Hill

Coping with family expectations

by Margaret Hill

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Published by Rosen Pub. Group in New York .
Written in English

    Subjects:
  • Expectation (Psychology) -- Juvenile literature.,
  • Teenagers -- Family relationships -- Juvenile literature.,
  • Expectation (Psychology),
  • Family life.

  • About the Edition

    Discusses family expectations of individuals, how they can be too harsh, too few, or too mild, how they develop and affect the individual, and how they can be understood and handled.

    Edition Notes

    Includes bibliographical references (p. 146-148) and index.

    StatementMargaret Hill.
    SeriesCoping
    Classifications
    LC ClassificationsBF323.E8 H54 1990
    The Physical Object
    Paginationv, 153 p. ;
    Number of Pages153
    ID Numbers
    Open LibraryOL1874186M
    ISBN 100823911594
    LC Control Number90034018
    OCLC/WorldCa21406012

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      To help your family cope with these significant disruptions and ease the related challenges, experts suggest developing a modified version of your child’s typical school routine that you adapt to your home environment. The routine should also consider the other demands on caregivers/parents, siblings or other family members, and self-care. When a Spouse Dies: Coping with the Loss of Your Partner. By Ken Doka, Ph. D. When a Spouse Dies. Wendy, 46 years old, is coping with the sudden death of her year-old husband. For over two years now, she has raised her teenage daughter alone.

    Their expectations are beginning to subside, as they realize that my life may be a bit unorthodox. I love them anyway. Yes, you heard that right: I love them no matter how unorthodox my life is; therefore, I can influence them to drop their defenses and decide whether they’ll love or hate me because of the life I . Kendra Cherry, MS, is an author, educational consultant, and speaker focused on helping students learn about psychology. Amy Morin, LCSW, is a psychotherapist, author of the bestselling book "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do," and a highly sought-after speaker. Resilience is what gives people the psychological strength 1  to cope.


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